Many of us unconsciously step out of our rightful place in the family , especially in childhood ...
You Don't have to keep parenting everyone around you . You don't have to carry the weight of the ones who came before you . You don't have to fix what was never yours to fix
when You become the parents :
you became the emotional caretaker. you parented your siblings you soothed your mother's heartbreak or held space for your father's rage .
when every family member is in their rightful place :
The child gets to be a child . The parent get to be the parent . siblings relate as siblings- Not rivals or caretakers . Lost or excluded members are honoured and included .
